The Chief of Defence Staff (CDS), General Christopher Gwabin Musa, OFR, has reiterated the Armed Forces’ commitment to the holistic development, empowerment, and protection of the Nigerian boy child, describing their progress as a national security imperative.
The CDS was represented by the Chief of Defence Civil-Military Affairs, Rear Admiral Olusanya Bankole, at the 2025 International Day of the Boy Child celebration held at the Defence Headquarters, Abuja.
The event, organized by the Defence and Police Officers’ Wives Association (DEPOWA), featured inspirational speeches, educational sessions, and interactive activities aimed at mentoring and empowering young boys from military and police communities.
Reading the CDS’s keynote address, Rear Admiral Bankole emphasized the urgent need to give attention to the challenges confronting boys in today’s society, including educational disadvantage, emotional neglect, societal pressure, and exposure to criminal influence.
“While necessary focus has been rightly placed on the girl child, it is time we also spotlight the boy child,” the CDS stated. “Our boys are navigating complex expectations and influences that impact their emotional and intellectual development. Ignoring these challenges poses a threat not only to the individuals but to the nation’s long-term security and stability.”
The CDS stressed that education, emotional intelligence, discipline, and mentorship are critical components in shaping boys into productive citizens and future leaders. He urged families, schools, religious institutions, and the military to model good values and invest in the well-being of male children.
“A disciplined life helps you reach your bigger dreams,” the CDS stated. “Let us raise boys who know respect, who choose faith, who honor women, and who stand tall not just with muscles but with morals.”
He further affirmed the Armed Forces’ commitment to safeguarding boys against violence, kidnapping, and criminal recruitment, while also supporting initiatives that provide them with economic and educational opportunities.
In her remarks, the President of DEPOWA and wife of the CDS, Mrs. Oghogho Musa, expressed her heartfelt passion for the cause, noting that boys often lack the emotional support and nurturing provided to girls.
“Today is not about us—it’s about our boys,” she said. “We cannot raise future leaders in emotional silence. Boys must be guided, affirmed, and mentored, not just disciplined. They deserve to be heard and supported.”
Mrs. Musa, a mother of four boys herself, called on parents and caregivers to intentionally model values of integrity, kindness, and responsibility, while building a culture of love, leadership, and self-worth among boys.
She also appreciated the support of the First Lady of Nigeria, Senator Oluremi Tinubu, and the leadership of the Armed Forces for providing platforms that uplift and empower young boys within the defense community.
“When we empower the boy child, we secure the future of our homes, our institutions, and our nation,” she said. “Let this not just be a celebration but the beginning of a movement.”
The ceremony was attended by military personnel, schoolchildren, educators, and members of the Defence and Police Officers’ Wives Association. It featured cultural performances, motivational talks, and affirmations from boys in attendance, reinforcing the message that every child, regardless of gender, deserves care, education, and the opportunity to thrive.
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